Father's Day has passed, but it's still worth watching our own Parent Schmarent columnist Christopher Noxon telling a tale fit for father's day and any day for dads.
They never tell you that there is another option, staying single and being happy. The life picture is always painted with ending up happily married. I am much better at being happily single. Could have saved a lot of time and money (and frustration) if I would have just known that sooner. me too (53)
My live sucks. I make all the money, but I spend none of it on myself. I support the kids totally, but I have no say in how they are raised. I have sex rarely, and when I do, it is focused almost entirely on her. I get little touching, little affection, little attention. I am little more than a housekeeper. I am lonely, horny, bored and apathetic. Isn't life supposed to be better than this?
My wife and I have very little sex, everytime we are alone it is one excuse after another. I provide a home and pay the bills, all I want to a little loving now and then. But she seems to have time to talk with and flirt online with all kinds of guys. Wish she would just stop and think about my needs once in awhile.
I have to disagree that co-sleeping = no sex life.We have PLENTY of other rooms in the house to have sex in. The kitchen, bathroom, laundry room, dining room, living, hall ways, garage, office....
Having kids=crappy sex lifeCo-sleeping=no sex lifeDon't let your wives talk you into it. It's eaten away out our love life. It's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm roommates and running a live-in nursery school with an ex-girlfriend. I can't wait until we get our bed back, and we can be husband and wife sometimes, not just Mommy and Daddy.
Today is our 15th wedding anniversary. Two weeks ago I offered to take my wife away for the weekend on a small cruise and she said she couldn't as she was planning to spend the day watch her loser brothers kids for the millionth time. I said fine, never mind as I am used to it at this point. Yesterday she calls me and says her brother doesn't need her after all, so so could could go out in the evening. I love being the option thats gets excercised when no one else needs you for anything. Thanks for throwing the dog a bone bitch.
I knew it was going down hill when she asked for fake boobs..I did it $15,000 later she says that she wants to re join her band and start singing at weddings bars ETC. I was like, will that make U happy?.YES! OK so be it.I stayed home with our beautiful baby girl. Now as she finishes up her BA in nursing she starts going on "trips" well last night I was served with "PAPERS" yes she wants out! she is not in love with me anymore and needs her space..ALONE. .... O my God my poor daughter..My wife has no good mother role model as her mother had her and and then the 2nd baby in the second baby in the marriage was born a DIFFERENT race than the father!!! She bolted and the poor guy raised BOTH kids (one that was not even his!) Well I can only hope that she bolts and I can raise my GIRL THE RIGHT WAY!!!. I AM SICK
Back on 6/30 I had a confession that I thought my wife wanted to bang my neighbor. Well today 7/2 I took off the day from work and went to ask my wife to go to lunch because she packed hers thismorning and guess what her van wasnt there so I went to the place where we do go to lunch when we do go.Man did I feel sick when right next to her van was his truck(I hope you never go through that I was so sick to my stomach) I decided to pull over to the far corner of the lot and hide until they came out getting sicker all the while.1/2 hour later they came out walked to their parking spots and began a kiss that went at least 15 seconds long enough for me to start my car and drive over to where they were. They had finished kissing by the time I got there and she didnt see me but he turned around to see it was me and I said "some nice friend you are" and drove around to the front of my wifes van and thats when she say me what a look on her face and as I pulled .up to her drivers side window I heard him speed away. At this point I dont think she could believe her eyes and I asked her whats up and she said nothing we talked for 10 minutes or so and all she could say was that nothing had happend and that they had only kissed a couple of times days before. She said they talked about it over lunh and didnt want to do anything to hurt "our friendship" and "our marriage".If thats the case then a 15 second kiss tells me that, that was more of a "goodbye kiss" then anything, one dosent decide to not do the deed then chase it with a long passionate kiss like that. At this point I think they did at least once. The bitch of it is we have 3 kids and I cant leave them and sure as s**t dont want to sleep in our bed any longer.20 years of careing, shareing and loving down the drain all the while we said we would never cheat because we had both been cheated on in the past. Gut feelings? believe em.
Everytime I hear my wife yammer on about, "How could somebody cheat on Christie Brinkley, how could somebody cheat on Halle Berry, How could somebody cheat on [insert physically attractive recently divorced multiple times celebrity here]", I just want to scream out loud and tell her, after a few failed marriages where all men confirm the same reason why they left, when is it time to admit that it's probably the woman's fault?It doesn't matter how hot she is, if she does not enjoy sex or is mentally unstable, divorce is imminent on the man's part. And why shouldn't it be?
They never tell you that there is another option, staying single and being happy. The life picture is always painted with ending up happily married. I am much better at being happily single. Could have saved a lot of time and money (and frustration) if I would have just known that sooner.
